ALL THE TIME IN THE WORLD?
Believe it or not, Death can be our biggest motivation while
we’re here on Earth. If you fear death or think its
morbid to discuss it, you’ve been fed the wrong information
or read the wrong books. Because Death is not our enemy but
our ally. Birth is the entrance to our temporary human existence,
and death is the exit back to our “true self”.
Really, the only thing negative about Death, is our attitude
about it. Fearing or ignoring death can cause many of us to
live only half a life.
If we place death behind us out of denial, we’re
ignoring the fact that sooner or later it will catch up with
us. We are falsely believing that we have all the time in
the world to finish what we started, and follow through on
all we dreamed of achieving. We may take for granted the true
value of our relationships with friends and loved ones, as
if they will always be around. People with this attitude usually
are the most shocked when someone they know has left Earth
or when “they themselves” have been told, they’ll
be leaving the planet soon. They feel guilt for not giving
more of themselves to others or regret for not finishing their
goals to the best of their ability.
If we place death in front of us out of fear, we will
often make decisions based on fear as well. We’ll avoid
many experiences, that although are a bit scary, could bring
us profound growth and success. When we avoid things out of
fear, we miss a huge part of our Earth journey. Its like skipping
elementary school and jumping into college without the education
to handle it. People who avoid things solely on their fear
of death miss out on a whole lot. They tend to relate pain
with death, which is impossible. Because pain is a sensation
of the human body, it lets you know you’re still alive
and that there's’ still time to do something about it.
There is no pain in death.
Now, If we place death beside us, we use it as a reminder
not to waste precious time. We understand that the time
to act is now and not later. Because we realize later may
never come. We realize the preciousness of our life and the
lives of others, and we do not waste it. Death is our guide,
our counselor and friend, reminding us that “NOW”
is all there is. Death at our side reminds us that there is
no tomorrow or yesterday. When we move forward with this conscious
mindset, we leave fewer tasks unfinished. And, when its time
to depart, we leave our life with greater feeling of accomplishment
and contribution to humanity.
Don’t wait for the sudden, unexpected passing of somebody,
or a tough illness to befall you to get with the NOW. Now
is the time. Now has always been the time to cease the moment
and live your dream and share it with others, …especially
because, this moment could be your
last.
Master Kathryn Kiffmann |